BOOK REVIEW: The Things We Never Say by Elizabeth Strout

Elizabeth Strout is one of my favorite writers. I just read The Things We Never Say, and I’m impressed all over again. A quiet book, it touches on so much that it both warms and breaks your heart at the same time.

The main character is Artie Dam, a high school history teacher living in a Massachusetts coastal town. He loves his job. He cares about his students, and they are all, in some way or another, inspired by him. He is married, with an adult son. He has friends and colleagues. But Artie is lonely.

The book deals with loneliness. With inability to connect. With depression. And with damaging secrets. As the novel progresses, one secret unfolds after another, not just in Artie’s life, but in the lives of everyone around him. Can no one truly connect because everyone has something to hide? There are moments of exquisite joy, but the joy fades. Resentment takes over. And finally, resignation is all that is left.

And yet, the novel comes back to the impact of Artie’s life, and the way he touched the lives of those around him.

I highly recommend this book. And all of Strout’s books.