I received this book for free from Netgalley. That did not influence this review.
Way back in 1980 or ‘81, I saw the movie Ordinary People, and found it incredibly sad. One of the things that stuck with me was the incredible acting by Mary Tyler Moore – so different from how I was used to seeing her.
At any rate, when I saw on Netgalley that the novel by Judith Guest was being re-released, I wanted to read it. I hadn’t read it when it was first published, so this was new to me.
From the very first page, I was totally immersed. I hated having to put it down because I was so caught up in the story.
Conrad Jarrett is a seventeen-year-old boy/young man, who has just come home from an 8-month hospitalization for a mental health crisis. After the death of his older brother in a boating accident, Conrad had sunk into a depression and tried to take his own life. Now, he is trying to rebuild that life, but the family dynamic is changed and stressful. His father is understandably worried about him, and maybe a bit overprotective, but does not come across as overbearing. His mother is the opposite, completely aloof, rarely even speaking to Conrad. And she is hypercritical of her husband’s concern for their son. The novel is told from the viewpoints of Conrad and his father. His mother is seen only through their eyes, and the reader is left to piece together what she is feeling (or not feeling) through her actions.
One of the stars of the book is Conrad’s therapist, Dr. Berger, who helps Conrad work through his depression and guilt. Dr. Berger is there for him in a crisis when his parents are not.
There are no miracles or dramatic breakthroughs. The healing is a slow and incomplete process. Grief, confusion, guilt, and love are threaded through the plot. Conrad is also navigating the usual stresses of late adolescence: changing friendships, school, extra-curricular activities, and first love.
The novel is as powerful as the movie, if not more so. Highly recommended.
















































